I believe in advocacy and have always used this verse to promote advocacy for those who cannot speak for themselves. Sometimes we need to be reminded that we must speak for our selves, also.
This week, my husband and I advocated for ourselves over a very simple (to us) issue and I am happy to report we were successful.
During all of the crazy family doings on Christmas,
a gift card was misplaced.
Due to my very conscientious husband removing everything and trucking it away the very next day, we could not search through the gift wrap and boxes.
On Monday, after searching all possible places, we contacted the store where we had purchased the card. We knew we probably could not get a refund, but, in that case, we decided that we would purchase another card for the dear recipient.
While holding for further assistance my husband heard the head cashier say he was "s___ out of luck". When she returned to the phone, he reprimanded her with "Young lady, etc." He was not rude back to her but did tell her she should not speak that way to or about a customer.
After hanging up he called back to speak with the manager. After telling the manager what has transpired, and the manager stating he would speak to the employee, my husband suggested a written apology would be nice. The manager replied that was not going to happen.
Let me interject, that we have never had a problem with this store and have recently spent a good deal of money there on new appliances, paint, etc.
Because I have written many letters and court reports advocating for children, I offered to send an e-mail to the complaint department of the main office. I wrote the e-mail suggesting that with out the customer the employee would have no job. I added that, in this day of advanced technology I was surprised that a gift card # could not be cancelled and a refund or new card given. I ended with saying that we had planned to purchase another card but would now give the recipient cash rather than spend our money in this store. I was polite, but assertive in my value as a customer and my expectation of courteous service.
We received an immediate response asking for the store location and the receipt number.
Yesterday my husband received a phone call from the store (different manager)
and was told that the gift card was cancelled and a new one was in the mail!
Now what if we had just assumed we were out of luck?
On a similar note, asparagus has been puny, stunted in the supermarket for the past month. When I commented this week regarding the why of this, I was told that it is the consumer's fault!!
Why?...Because we keep purchasing it anyway instead of refusing poor quality.
Makes sense, doesn't it?
Thursday, December 31, 2009
ON THE 6TH DAY OF CHRISTMAS – SELF-ADVOCACY
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
4th Day of Christmas - Gifts
Food and comfort... what more could we want?!
Monday, December 28, 2009
ON THE THIRD DAY OF CHRISTMAS - JOY
Life has thrown a few punches at us recently. But in the midst of serious concerns there is no reason to feel hopeless or helpless either, for that matter.
Knowing that God is in control and whatever happens He either planned for us or He is allowing to happen means that there is no need to worry or feel anxious. Even when my heart aches for a son who must deal with the ongoing issues of divorced parenting or my daughter who still waits for the gift of motherhood. Even then I know that God loves them and wants His best for them.
When my DH is faced with salary reductions and other job frustrations, I am thankful that he has a job. When my health issues prevent me from physically eating favorite foods or living a pain free energetic lifestyle,, I am assured that God wants me to appreciate other things in my life. (It does make me wonder what He is preparing us for in the future.)
I am happy when my family is happy, but more important than happiness is obedience to God's instructions. Obedience produces joy. I am praying that my children do not take as many years to figure this out as I have.
The third day of Christmas finds me physically tired after all of the celebration activities, but spiritually energized with joy!
"Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;" Romans 5:3
Sunday, December 27, 2009
On the Second Day of Christmas
Unbelievable,and yet not, coming from the resident curiosity seeker. When I answered no and failed to make a hasty retreat, the questions disguised as concern came next. My pre-planned answer of Only God knows the answer to that would have encouraged her to ask again next week.
The desire to give a rude reply was strong for a flashing second. Just a few moments earlier I had felt so close to God and had felt so grateful to Jesus for the sacrifice He had made for me. I was not going to let a rude person steal this from me. So, I patiently told this woman the medical reason my daughter was not with child. It was none of her business and I knew she just wanted to be 'in the know'. Yet, I still tried to explain. Just as my daughter had said, it made no difference. I still got the 'well, you never know, it can happen." response.
I do know. It has happened! Weren't you listening?
What is wrong with people?? Only a very close friend could have the privilege of asking that question and a close friend would know not to ask.
I almost let this ruin a perfectly good '2nd Day of Christmas'. Almost.
Saturday, December 26, 2009
The First Day of Christmas
We drove to an equestrian town with decorated horse statues scattered about. We explored little antique shops and dined in a blast from the past deli. The most memorable moment of the day was breaking and paying for a small piece of depression glass. So delicate and fragile that when it landed on the carpeted floor it shattered into a million pieces. I wish I had been quick thinking enough to tell the staff that I broke the piece. Then I would have achieved hero status in my daughter's eyes. LOL We made a hasty exit from the potential of additional disaster and headed out to peruse more stable wares. Good times!
I heard that many were busy taking down their Christmas decorations today and I am a little dismayed that Christmas is considered over instead of just beginning. I will not begin putting away the beautiful lights until the new year is upon us. To each his own; however, when it comes to celebrating the arrival of my Lord and Saviour the joyous occasion can continue even beyond Epiphany.
Friday, December 25, 2009
CHRISTMAS IN YOUR HEART
"He who has not Christmas in his heart,
Will not find it under a tree." Roy L. Smith
~
I often wonder what people are celebrating
when I observe the massive amount of lights,
snowmen and other inflatable decorations
covering the yards.
If they were all believers
and followers of Christ,
then the world would be
a great deal kinder
than it is.
What are they celebrating?
Homes are overflowing
with new toys, clothing
and electronics.
If they do not believe
in the Jesus
whose birth we honor...
What are they celebrating?
I wonder...
although I do not mind.
They resemble toddlers
who wave flags
at military parades.
The little ones do not know
about freedom
or valor.
Yet, they are swept along
by the excitement.
One day
the Christmas celebrants may understand
what it is they are celebrating.
I pray for that day to come.
~
"Behold, You desire truth in the inner being;
make me therefore to know wisdom
in my inmost heart."
Psalm 51:6
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Friday, December 4, 2009
NO REGRETS
I love this song. It is depressingly sad, yet it draws me back to feel the pain again, maybe because somehow I want to fix things for those who are hurt. I want to never hurt those I love and I regret my failures of the past.
Regret hurts the heart and there is no rewind on our actions. It is a bittersweet song. A reminder that those who do the hurting want to stop as much as we want them to stop. They are trapped by their own memories.
"as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us.
"Psalm 103:12
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Screenings don't save significantly more lives...
I bet if it was the life of your loved one then it would have made a signficant difference!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
GIFTED!
It is more blessed to give than to receive.
It is too bad that the visiting team didn't know that.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
NO WORRIES
Today I was caught off guard by the overwhelming emotion as I stepped through the door. My eyes darted quickly away from the racks of pink and blue onesies and tiny precious shoes. My heart suddenly felt so heavy. I turned towards the checkout counter and hurriedly grabbed a gift card.
One day I would walk through the aisles again and sigh over the adorable small creations, but not today. Today a gift card was the best I could do.
As I walked out into the sunshine of a perfect sun filled day, I did not see it. Tears threatened to turn into sobs. I took a deep breath and attempted push the pain away.
I think I must never show how much my heart breaks for her, and for me. I think I must forever be her cheerleader. But then I read this and know that today she is mine.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Monday, October 26, 2009
Thursday, October 15, 2009
I Can Still Feel Him in My Arms
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Toddlers, Tiaras & Swimsuits in Vegas
What I am thinking is that every pedophile in America is TiVo-ing this program.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
My LEGACY
but also for the interests of others."
Phillippians 2:4 NKJV
~
Because I have served in the same capacity for twenty three years,
that she has chosen to follow in my footsteps.
~
Actually she will be walking in her own steps,
may have had some influence on her decision.
~
Monday, September 28, 2009
"Life is not fair, ..."
My appointment had been for 11:15 AM
I was told I would have to reschedule.
OK, I was late, no argument there.
However, the last time I had an appointment
I arrived early.
My appointment was for 4:30 PM
and I arrived at 4:15 PM.
It was 6 PM before I saw the Doctor.
~
"Life is not fair, get used to it." - Bill Gates
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
CONSIDER IT JOY!!
Monday, September 14, 2009
What makes Weebles Wobble?
Thursday, September 10, 2009
President Brings God back to Schools!
Our President indicated in his speech that he wants students to follow his example. He then ended his speech with God Bless You and God Bless America. I encourage all students and teachers to follow your President's example! Ask God's blessing on each other and America each day.
Monday, September 7, 2009
GOD IS GOOD
I notice that when Christians share good news,
they often say something like
"God is good." or "God is so good."
But, I don't usually see comments on fear, pain, anxiety,
or other troubles followed with that statement.
We tend to want to emphasize how good God is
when He has been especially good to us or someone we love.
Sometimes, we follow that statement with 'ALL THE TIME'.
If we truly believe that,
then we should exclaim "GOD IS GOOD."
even when the news is bad
Yesterday Satan viciously attacked me.
I was stunned, unable to respond appropriately
and I was disheartened.
But I want to say, despite that cold, brutal attack
GOD IS GOOD.
Because if He is good on the mountain,
then He is good in the valley.
God has been so good to me,
He is good right now
and He will be good tomorrow.
God is good!!!
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Friday, July 31, 2009
Toxicity
Monday, July 13, 2009
PATIENCE IS BETTER!
We have been attending Gaither concerts for close to 30 years. We took our young son when he was a preschooler and the first time I left my daughter in the care of someone else was to go to hear the Gaither Vocal Band at Carolina Coliseum. We had most of their music from vinyls, tapes, CD’s and even piano sheet music. The lullaby of choice for my babies was “There is Something About That Name” so we were connoisseurs of a sort.
Fast forward to June 2009… My now adult daughter and I were driving as she browsed through my CD case. She chose the above mentioned CD and I grimaced because I knew there was better music to be had. The first two songs played and really weren’t that bad. Better than I remembered. Much to my surprise next was one of my favorites, then another good one and before I knew I was enjoying the whole thing. How could it have changed so much? It got better while lying around unused? Or could it be me? Was I not as discriminating as before?
Well, I will tell you what happened, plain and simple. I had given up on it too soon. Before I listened to all of it, I had judged it unacceptable. I laughed at myself for missing out on some good music for several years. The sad thing is that if my daughter had not chosen it from the case, it would still be in there.
Isn’t that the way we treat many things in our fast paced world? If something isn’t fun or exciting we quickly move on to the next thing. We are too impatient to put the time into learning a new skill, nurturing a new friendship or a new marriage, or even playing a game with a child. The skill we thought we wanted was tedious so we put it aside. A friendship is developing too slowly and there are other potential friends up ahead. The marriage is struggling so we move on. And we took the child to a movie instead of investing an afternoon to monopoly. Then suddenly, it seems, we have nothing to show for a year of living, the friend is gone, the marriage is over and the child has grown up.
“The end of a matter is better than its beginning,
Ecclesiastes 7:8
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
And Only One Came Back
All of the places listed below and more have visited PRAISE HIS NAME and only one has taken a few moments to take a photo of the name of Jesus.
United States
Brazil
Hilton Head, South Carolina
Ireland
Lexington, South Carolina
United Kingdom
Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania
Belgium
South Africa
Colombia
Washington DC
India
La Grange, North Carolina
Italy
San Diego, California
Poland
Pullman, Washington
Mexico
Wallace, Michigan
Hanoi, Dac Lac, Vietnam
Kearny, New Jersey
Kingsport, Tennessee
Weslaco, Texas
Haysi, Virginia
Ellsworth, Maine
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Cucumber?
Friday, July 3, 2009
Monday, June 29, 2009
Did God join Facebook?
Was He surprised that someone would impersonate Him, as I was surprised when I saw He had joined? Did He get tired of MySpace or is He looking for His children who haven’t contacted Him much lately?
Does He need to join Facebook to look at friends profiles to find out what they are doing?
Does He have to join in order to see their photos so He knows how they are changing?
Maybe He wants to sign up our birthdays on MyCalendar so He won’t forget about us and can remember just how old we are. That is too funny!
What does He think of Facebook? I wonder if He thinks His children are wasting a lot of precious time posting things like “Going to sleep.” Or “I’m bored.” when they could be praying, playing, planting, growing, singing, dancing, helping, feeding, reading, leading, following,… well, you get the picture.
Maybe He is remembering how excited His children were when the telephone was invented and they could talk with their friends. Or how amazed we were with that e-mail we thought was da bomb a few short years ago. Or, how we used to visit face to face, sharing hugs and wiping tears and really listening to each other.
Would God join Facebook? I dunno... I just can’t seem to see it. Maybe he would, just to be friendly with everyone. But I think He could get people’s attention in more magnificent ways. I am thinking my God is chuckling over the thought. After all, God is omniscient?
I wonder if He is on Twitter.
“O LORD, you have searched me and you know me
You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.”
Psalm 139:1-3
Saturday, June 27, 2009
I Just Love Gardening!!
I hope they will return some day!
Monday, June 22, 2009
UNBELIEVABLE!!
" For we all have sinned and come short of the glory of God."
Romans 3:23 My post is not about those facts. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I phoned my rheumatologist for an appointment and I received a call back with this message. "Dr. B (maybe I should just say his name) would prefer that you see your primary physician."
I phoned the office again to ask why and was told. "I'm sorry, that is what he said and I cannot ask him again."
My prescriptions have run out and for a moment I was stunned. Then I remembered: At the last appointment, I asked Dr. B his opinion on a particular drug that he had prescribed (and that was working quite well). There had been much ado on TV from attorneys offering to represent you if you were on this drug. I simply asked his opinion and he explained that all NSAID's were equally risky. That we had to weigh the results with the risks. I assured him that the results were very good and my life was better now with this drug than before this drug.
I thought that was the end of the conversation, but then Dr B abruptly pulled out his prescription pad and said, "My policy is that if a patient asks questions regarding this drug, I take them off it."
I quickly stated that I didn't want to stop the drug, I simply wanted to be knowledgeable regarding it. He repeated, "That's my policy." and wrote a prescription for another drug. Then, instead of writing, follow up in 3 months or 6 months as in the past, he wrote on my chart, follow-up as needed.
Well, prescriptions are running out and an ENT has diagnosed another auto inflammatory condition; therefore, I phoned for an appointment.
What? Dr B's patients must be compliant and never ask questions?
This is very confusing. Every magazine, every medical news site, every talk show medical guest, all say, be your own health advocate. Speak up if you have questions or concerns. I spoke up, I had a question....and I was fired as a patient?
Confusing....I'm just saying.
Lesson #999 (approximately)
'nuff said.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
FINALLY!
The Dr finally called with the results of the biopsy.
It confirmed what he suspected and I already knew.
Unfortunately there is no cure for it,
it is a chronic autoimmune inflammatory condition.
Nothing to be done but keep an eye on it.
Magic Mouthwash
(yes that is really the name of a concoction the pharmacist mixes)
is the only med prescribed.
It can come
and go,
so please pray
that it will go away for a while.
I am very hungry
and tired of frozen yogurt!
You would think
I would have lost weight
during the past couple of months,
but it is just the opposite.
Turns out sweet tea
and frozen yogurt
are not an ideal weight loss plan.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
WAITING
I listened to praise and worship music through my iPod to keep myself calm and focused. After an hour alone in the little surgical room I began to wonder if everyone had gone home. It was nearing 6 o'clock and my appointment had been for 4:30.
I clicked the iPod off to listen for activity in the building. What I heard was the Doctor saying "I'm sorry..." I couldn't hear the rest.
Then the Doctor came in and told me the results of blood work (almost all good news)
The biopsy was, despite the stinging anesthetic, nearly painless (why are we surprised when God answers our prayers?). I was leaving when I saw a woman crying in the hallway and I knew that on this day I was the fortunate one.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Life Gets in the Way!
When life gets in the way of writing on a blog, that's a good thing!
This past month has been busy with the best part of Life - Family!
- Spring Flowers chosen and planted by mini-me
- "You alone are the Lord.
- You made the heavens,
- ...the earth and all that is on it,
- ...You give life to everything and
- the multitudes of heaven worship you.
- Nehemiah 9:6
- A wonderful Mother's Day gift:
(War stories)
- A first piano lesson
Sunday, May 24, 2009
IT DOES A BODY GOOD!
It does a mother's heart good to see results of her investment of time and training.
On Mother's Day when we were driving to our Island destination, I was back seat (actually front passenger) driving. I hate bridges and spoke harshly regarding her driving style while crossing the bridges to the Island. There is no driving style on a bridge that will completely satisfy me, but keeping to the inner lanes does lesson my angst. Anyway, she didn't even act offended. Wow! She may have been offended, but she didn't act offended. She let it go. A very adult attitude.
And today she expects those who are worshiping her Lord to act worshipful! Just like she was taught! I love it!
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Bibles in School Upsets Parents
and sharper than any two-edged sword,.."
Hebrews 4:12
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Uninvited Guest
Saturday, May 16, 2009
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY #38
because they have a good return
for their work:
if one falls down,
his friend can help him up.
But pity the man who falls
and has no one to help him up!"
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10